{"id":4770,"date":"2015-03-30T15:00:16","date_gmt":"2015-03-30T15:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/keblog.demoapp.xyz\/?p=4770"},"modified":"2022-10-19T03:51:18","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T03:51:18","slug":"working-is-just-like-dating-infographic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic","title":{"rendered":"Working Is Just Like Dating (Infographic)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4801\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic.png\" alt=\"working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\" width=\"1326\" height=\"446\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic.png 1326w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic-300x101.png 300w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic-1024x344.png 1024w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic-768x258.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1326px) 100vw, 1326px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Work demands a lot of your time, requires you to be attentive, compels you to care, and asks you to go beyond your comfort zone. Does this sound a little familiar? <em>Hint:<\/em> Your significant others are probably nodding their heads.<\/p>\n<p>The people who\u2019ve been there will definitely see that dating and working have a lot of things in common. You hear people lovingly (or not-so-lovingly) call their partners \u201cthe boss\u201d and it\u2019s not such a stretch to figure out why. Both relationships call you to follow, lead and occasionally put out fires.<\/p>\n<p>We at Kalibrr list down some of the many ways your work life can mirror your romantic life. Read on and see if these describe you and the \u201cboss\u201d.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_26 counter-hierarchy\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">TOPICS<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"display: none;\"><label for=\"item\" aria-label=\"Table of Content\"><i class=\"ez-toc-glyphicon ez-toc-icon-toggle\"><\/i><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"item\"><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#The_hunt\" title=\"The hunt\">The hunt<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#The_probationary_period\" title=\"The probationary period\">The probationary period<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#Youre_on_call\" title=\"You\u2019re on call\">You\u2019re on call<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#Unreasonable_demands\" title=\"Unreasonable demands\">Unreasonable demands<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#Working_overtime\" title=\"Working overtime\">Working overtime<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#Peer_evaluations_Strengths_and_weaknesses\" title=\"Peer evaluations: Strengths and weaknesses\">Peer evaluations: Strengths and weaknesses<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/working-is-just-like-dating-infographic\/#The_rewards_at_the_end_of_the_day\" title=\"The rewards at the end of the day\">The rewards at the end of the day<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_hunt\"><\/span><strong>The hunt<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4799\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-2.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-2.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-2-290x300.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Though everyone will have their own opinion of which is easier, we can all agree that looking for a job and looking of a potential boyfriend or girlfriend are both not laughing matters. In rare instances, the process can be easy as pie but for the most part, it\u2019s a constant process of seeking, trying it out, finding out it won\u2019t work, and seeking again. Job interviews and first dates can both be nerve-wracking and, in cases of bad timing, they can both bring you back to square one.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_probationary_period\"><\/span><strong>The probationary period<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4797\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_-1.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_-1.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_-1-290x300.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once you get your foot in the door, how do you get all the way in? The probationary period for work and romance run the same course. You get to know each other, find out how you mesh in different situations, put your best foot forward, and pray for a good fit. Though dating can make you a little bit more creative and a lot more emotional, in both relationships you seek to impress the other party while showing your true colors. A piece of advice that goes both ways: invest yourself fully once you\u2019re sure you\u2019ve found something worthwhile.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Youre_on_call\"><\/span><strong>You\u2019re on call<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4795\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"359\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_.jpg 359w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic_-291x300.jpg 291w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 359px) 100vw, 359px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For many people, nagging in the workplace and in the relationship arena is a major turnoff, with reason. Despite how much we may love our work and\/or significant other, we all need our me-time to recharge and reconnect with ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>If done right, being \u201con call\u201d can be a nifty relationship hack. Telling your loved one how your day went and being curious about theirs is just as healthy as telling your boss how hard or easy a project was and how you think it can be done better. The back and forth between you and the other party can lead to excitement, investment, cooperation, and most importantly, understanding. Any healthy relationship needs a good amount of honest communication.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve got that down, being on call for relationship and work emergencies won\u2019t be a burden but actually something you want to do.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Unreasonable_demands\"><\/span><strong>Unreasonable demands<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4793\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-1.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-1.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-1-290x300.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In less than ideal situations, relationships can mean unreasonable demands. If your partner asks too much of you without giving back, the stress you end up with can be just as bad or even worse than work stress.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no denying that there are people out there who don\u2019t know the meaning of the word \u201creasonable.\u201d These are the people who think asking you to bring them that specific brand of ice cream that can only be found in two stores on either ends of the city at 3am is not totally ridiculous. These are the bosses who call you right before bedtime and give you a brand new assignment that needs to be started from the ground up, and expects you to be done with a polished, extremely thought out presentation by 8am the next day. Unreasonable.<\/p>\n<p>If you can manage it, the key is to teach these people boundaries and manage expectations. Just because you love them or the work doesn\u2019t mean they can abuse you. If you can\u2019t teach them that, then maybe the relationship is not for forever.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Working_overtime\"><\/span><strong>Working overtime<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4791\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-2.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-2.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-2-290x300.jpg 290w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re invested in it, you work for it.<\/p>\n<p>Excluding situations where the other party is disrespectful of your time and priorities (see situations above), working overtime for a relationship is not a bad thing \u2013 sometimes it\u2019s even a necessity.<\/p>\n<p>If you want more meaning than what the routine movie date or the simple 9-5 can give you, then put in the hours. Spend quality time building the relationship. Plan a trip or visit their families. If it\u2019s work, spend productive time doing your tasks, learning your projects inside and out, and building up the company.<\/p>\n<p>Just like how you get overtime pay and get tons of work done, working overtime for your relationship can only make its foundation grow stronger.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Peer_evaluations_Strengths_and_weaknesses\"><\/span><strong>Peer evaluations: Strengths and weaknesses<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4789\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-1.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"371\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-1.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-1-289x300.jpg 289w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In any relationship, the way people see you is often a pretty clear mirror of how you actually are. Other people aren\u2019t perfect and their views may not always be objective, but seeing yourself the way they see you is always a good exercise in self-awareness and openness to change.<\/p>\n<p>We may not know about our annoying work habits or how our tones can be slightly snarky or impatient. The only way we would know is if other people speak out. In your relationship and in your work environment, encourage constant feedback and follow it through with being open-minded about what people have to say.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_rewards_at_the_end_of_the_day\"><\/span><strong>The rewards at the end of the day<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4787\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"358\" height=\"371\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic.jpg 358w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic-289x300.jpg 289w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The best similarity between dating and working is the satisfaction you have at the end of a long day. There\u2019s nothing quite like the contentment of sharing your life with someone and knowing that for that day, you contributed to society with your hard work. Intangible rewards are sometimes the best kind of reward.<\/p>\n<p>With a little bit of care, investment and level-headedness, your work life and your romantic life can blossom to something lasting. Otherwise, they are phases you go through that grant you experience and wisdom. Either way, both are life-defining and life-changing.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re the type who\u2019s great in one department but lacking in another, just take the same dedicated ethic to wherever you\u2019re more successful (be it romance or career), and see how the relationship grows.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4785\" src=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__.jpg\" alt=\"working_is_just_like_dating_infographic\" width=\"512\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__.jpg 512w, https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/working_is_just_like_dating_infographic__-260x300.jpg 260w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Work demands a lot of your time, requires you to be attentive, compels you to care, and asks you to go beyond your comfort zone. Does this sound a little familiar? Hint: Your significant others are probably nodding their heads. 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