{"id":5261,"date":"2015-12-07T08:57:50","date_gmt":"2015-12-07T08:57:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/keblog.demoapp.xyz\/?p=5261"},"modified":"2022-10-19T03:46:12","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T03:46:12","slug":"ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life","title":{"rendered":"13 Ways to Attract Success and Seriously Win at Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A question was randomly asked online through\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/What-would-people-advise-a-hypothetical-22-year-old-college-graduate-to-do-with-his-or-her-life\/?link=anchortext\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Quora<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>on what would people advise a 22-year-old fresh graduate to do with his\/her life assuming he\/she could do anything, and while there were many who answered the question well, it was\u00a0Evan Asano, CEO and founder of marketing company\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/mediakix.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Mediakix.com<\/a><\/strong>, that gave one of the most profound response. It is perhaps something we already know of but didn&#8217;t\u00a0seem to give it much thought or practice because\u00a0we&#8217;re probably too caught up with a certain system on how to live our life, specially with regards to our careers, however, Evan suggests that\u00a0if you want to bring success into your life, you must attract it by loosening up and living it to the fullest. While his suggestions below pertains more to life in general, we could still practice these ways in our everyday work lives.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_26 counter-hierarchy\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">TOPICS<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"display: none;\"><label for=\"item\" aria-label=\"Table of Content\"><i class=\"ez-toc-glyphicon ez-toc-icon-toggle\"><\/i><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\" id=\"item\"><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#1_Read\" title=\"1. Read.\">1. Read.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#2_Accept_Uncertainty\" title=\"2. Accept Uncertainty.\">2. Accept Uncertainty.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#3_Agree\" title=\"3. Agree.\">3. Agree.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#4_Be_curious\" title=\"4. Be curious.\">4. Be curious.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#5_Be_open_minded\" title=\"5. Be open minded.\">5. Be open minded.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#6_Learn_from_adversity\" title=\"6. Learn from adversity.\">6. Learn from adversity.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#7_Foster_the_growth_mindset\" title=\"7. Foster the growth mindset.\">7. Foster the growth mindset.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#8_Get_out_of_your_comfort_zone\" title=\"8. Get out of your comfort zone.\">8. Get out of your comfort zone.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#9_Dont_hold_onto_the_wrong_things\" title=\"9. Don\u2019t hold onto the wrong things.\">9. Don\u2019t hold onto the wrong things.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#10_Travel\" title=\"10. Travel.\">10. Travel.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#11_Dont_wait_for_the_right_time_or_the_right_thing_to_say\" title=\"11. Don\u2019t wait for the right time or the right thing to say.\">11. Don\u2019t wait for the right time or the right thing to say.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#12_Dont_look_for_the_perfect_scenarios_partner_or_job\" title=\"12. Don&#8217;t look for the perfect scenarios, partner, or job.\">12. Don&#8217;t look for the perfect scenarios, partner, or job.<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/id\/ways-to-attract-success-and-seriously-win-at-life\/#13_Provide_value_in_the_world\" title=\"13. Provide value in the world.\">13. Provide value in the world.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Read\"><\/span><strong>1. Read.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ferociously.\u00a0Everything you can get your hands on. Ingest\u00a0in books about personal development, communication, achievement, biographies, leadership, success, marketing, sales, business, entrepreneurship. You\u2019ll do many things you may regret, but you will never regret spending time reading.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Accept_Uncertainty\"><\/span>2. Accept Uncertainty.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s uncertainty to everything; the sooner you can embrace that, the sooner you\u2019ll be able to leverage it.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Agree\"><\/span>3. Agree.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>On everything and everyone.\u00a0Stop arguing, stop trying to control every scenario, stop trying to prove yourself right. You\u2019ll never change anyone\u2019s opinion through argument, and no one will remember if you\u2019re right. Seek consensus. Groups, teams, and life move much better when harmonized than with discord.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Be_curious\"><\/span>4. Be curious.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There\u2019s a vast, fantastic world out there. Foster your curiosity, be ignorant and ask the right questions, and it will lead you to amazing places.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Be_open_minded\"><\/span>5. Be open minded.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Your opinions will change drastically on many, many things. The opinions you hold with absolute conviction may be very different in a few years. Don\u2019t let those opinions get in the way of meeting people and experiencing new things.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Learn_from_adversity\"><\/span>6. Learn from adversity.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019ll experience challenges and adversity you probably can\u2019t imagine right now. You\u2019ll have a choice when you have one of these experiences: Either see it as an obstacle, or focus on what you can learn and how you can grow from the experience. It won\u2019t be easy, but choose the latter relentlessly, and you\u2019ll grow in ways you can never imagine.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Foster_the_growth_mindset\"><\/span>7. Foster the growth mindset.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Watch this:<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Get_out_of_your_comfort_zone\"><\/span>8. Get out of your comfort zone.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It sounds cliche, but it\u2019s true. If you stay within your limits, you\u2019ll never know what you\u2019re capable of.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Dont_hold_onto_the_wrong_things\"><\/span>9. Don\u2019t hold onto the wrong things.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Grudges, anger, opinions. Let them go, quickly.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Travel\"><\/span>10. Travel.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Get out and explore. Another thing you will never ever regret. Go to places you\u2019d never think you\u2019d go. Max out your vacation time every year. Take a few weeks off between jobs and just travel. Save up for a year and take a few months off.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Dont_wait_for_the_right_time_or_the_right_thing_to_say\"><\/span>11. Don\u2019t wait for the right time or the right thing to say.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>For anything. Most of the time if you wait for the right time, you\u2019ll be too late. Those who win in the world are the ones who speak up and take immediate action. You might say a few things you later regret, but you\u2019ll regret not saying anything more.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_Dont_look_for_the_perfect_scenarios_partner_or_job\"><\/span>12. Don&#8217;t look for the perfect scenarios, partner, or job.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Everyone sees success and wonders of how Jobs and Wozniak found each other, the perfect partners. Well, it wasn\u2019t the one-in-a-billion odds that they found each other; they made each other the perfect partners, pushed each other\u2019s knowledge and expertise, and built Apple on their collective knowledge and energy.<\/p>\n<p>The vision of your career might include a high-profile company or opportunity (e.g. work at Google, live in San Francisco), but don\u2019t get hung up on these. Focus on the motivation behind that scenario rather than that goal.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"13_Provide_value_in_the_world\"><\/span>13. Provide value in the world.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Money and success are common goals, but so many people often don\u2019t achieve these in spite of their being nearly universal goals. Money and success are important, but focus on creating value in the world first. The biggest disrupters didn\u2019t do it because it would lead to money or fame, they did it because they wanted to change things. They saw a different future and created that.<\/p>\n<p>Look at Facebook. Mark Zuckerberg built a tool for Harvard students originally. It now has over 1.4 billion users! Wake up and think about what you can do to create value in the world to your friends and family, your company, your co-workers, your country. It&#8217;s a great big world out there, and opportunities are endless, you just have to know the right way\u00a0to reach them.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Want more tips on how to grow in your career? For your daily dose of career advice, follow Kalibrr on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Kalibrr\/?link=anchortext\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/kalibrr\/?link=anchortext\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a>, and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/kalibrr\/?link=anchortext\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A question was randomly asked online through\u00a0Quora\u00a0on what would people advise a 22-year-old fresh graduate to do with his\/her life assuming he\/she could do anything, and while there were many who answered the question well, it was\u00a0Evan Asano, CEO and founder of marketing company\u00a0Mediakix.com, that gave one of the most profound response. 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