{"id":2487,"date":"2015-02-23T16:00:48","date_gmt":"2015-02-23T16:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/keblog.demoapp.xyz\/?p=2487"},"modified":"2022-10-19T03:58:58","modified_gmt":"2022-10-19T03:58:58","slug":"your-guide-to-setting-boundaries-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neo-blog.kalibrr.com\/blog\/your-guide-to-setting-boundaries-at-work","title":{"rendered":"Your Guide To Setting Boundaries At Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hopefully, the words you don\u2019t end up saying during your final moments on Earth are, &#8220;If only I had spent more time at the office.\u201d That would be a unique case, if any, to say the least. What is not unique, however, are the many instances where employees have forgotten to draw the line between their life and work. Establishing a clear boundary between the two starts by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/20141106155149-52594-five-things-you-owe-your-employer-and-five-you-don-t\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">setting boundaries, according to an article by Human Workplace CEO and Founder Liz Ryan<\/span>:<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>A new muscle all of us are growing is the muscle called Setting Boundaries. You can&#8217;t set boundaries at work until you have a clear sense of what&#8217;s reasonable and what&#8217;s unreasonable when it comes to your commitment to your job.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ryan enumerates a list of five things employees owe his\/her employer as well as the five things they don\u2019t. This may be especially useful to the Filipino workplace, which has shown the ability to <a href=\"http:\/\/business.inquirer.net\/money\/topstories\/view\/20110327-327982\/The-Filipino-workplace-culture\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">blur the lines between personal and work endeavors<\/span>:<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Five things you owe your employer<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>1. <em>Your best work every day<\/em> \u2013 Do and give your best at work with what you have, where you are, day in and day out. You owe it to the organization, your boss, teammates, and most importantly, to your valued customers.<\/p>\n<p>2. <em>Your creative solutions<\/em> \u2013 Don\u2019t forget to bring and utilize your all of your brain and heart in addressing work problems.<\/p>\n<p>3. <em>The truth<\/em> \u2013 Honesty is the best policy. Live authentically at work by speaking not only the truth but also your truth as well.\u00a0 Shy types, break out of your shell.<\/p>\n<p>4. <em>TLC<\/em> \u2013 This doesn\u2019t involve playing the hit songs of a famous girl group but making sure your stakeholders are given the utmost care and concern in all potential and actual dealings.<\/p>\n<p>5. <em>Your integrity<\/em> \u2013 Lead by positive example. Never badmouth your employer as a tool to make your problems disappear. If it comes down to that, apply somewhere else.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>The five things you DON\u2019T owe your employer<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>1. <em>Your contacts<\/em> \u2013 Your contacts are not for company consumption. It is not ethical for a company to require their employees to hand over names of your contacts to add to its prospect list.<\/p>\n<p>2. <em>Your health<\/em> \u2013 On the heels of a high fever and getting an order from your boss to report to work? Time to log on to <a title=\"Find the right job at Kalibrr\" href=\"https:\/\/www.kalibrr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">your favorite job search site<\/a>. Good health is wealth and a good employer plays a hand in maintaining your well-being.<\/p>\n<p>3. <em>Your personal life<\/em> \u2013Your son\u2019s high school graduation coming up in the weekend and your boss asks you to report to work that day? Ryan suggests using the \u201cI wish I could but it\u2019s impossible\u201d script. Make sure that your \u201cpersonal\u201d agenda, through relationships or <a title=\"8 Reasons Everyone Should Have A Passion Project\" href=\"\/blog\/reasons-everyone-should-have-a-passion-project\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">projects outside of work that inspire passion and boundless energy<\/a>, do not stay neglected. Stand your ground.<\/p>\n<p>4. <em>Unearned loyalty<\/em> \u2013 Beware of organizations that exhibit \u201centitlement\u201d issues such as \u201cBe loyal to this company since this is where you work.\u201d It means also taking the time to take care of you and your family\u2019s interests, before your employer\u2019s, when a good opportunity presents itself.<\/p>\n<p>5. <em>Your soul<\/em> \u2013 Work should bring out the best in you, give your life meaning, and contribute to the type of positive person you aspire to be or the constructive values you believe in.<\/p>\n<p>Set boundaries because you can. \u00a0Because you owe it to yourself to live a life full of happiness, purpose, and cherished memories not just at work but more importantly, outside of work. Live by the words of American author, journalist, and opinion columnist Anna Quindlen, who said, \u201cDon&#8217;t ever confuse the two, your life and your work. That&#8217;s what I have to say. The second is only a part of the first.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/26953621@N03\/9225380618\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Zenes M<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hopefully, the words you don\u2019t end up saying during your final moments on Earth are, &#8220;If only I had spent more time at the office.\u201d That would be a unique case, if any, to say the least. 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